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Everything Matters 008: Our Relationships in High-Definition

Everything Matters 008: Our Relationships in High-Definition

That is a high-definition relationship. That is intimacy. Not only can we know what their favorite food is and what they studied in college, but we can also start to understand how they felt when their dad worked too long or their sister made fun of them whenever they were in public. We can understand more than just the facts. We can start to understand their experiences too.

Everything Matters 006: Speak to Me

Everything Matters 006: Speak to Me

But it also does something else which, as it turns out, is one of the most important parts of this whole process. It validates the speaker. That’s a fancy way of saying that the speaker knows that their emotions make sense or that they are not off the wall for feeling the way that they do.

Everything Matters 004: What Happens in Vegas Forms Your Brain

Everything Matters 004: What Happens in Vegas Forms Your Brain

Your experiences change you. On the first pass, that statement may seem to go without saying. It’s a given. You can probably think of some of those milestones right now. Maybe it was graduation day. For some people, it may have been the loss of a loved one. Marriage, the birth of children, retirement: all of these are great examples of milestone moments. These are the kind of moments we point to when we say that something happened and now we are different.